True Friends.... Or not.

Hey guys so today I wanted to touch on true friends and what I think really makes that true friend. First I think someone who you consider your true friend should be who you can be your 100% true self and not have to hide or put on a show. No one will ever be able to be that friend if you can't let them know you 100%. Next you can't be afraid to talk to them no matter what good,bad or ugly you should now before you tell them it will get pretty bad and could turn ugly but you know that it will turn out for good. Another is you can't let them walk all over you and treat you like a door mat and just expect you to do things with out even asking. That's kinda like a double edge sword you know that your true friend will do anything with out asking but I think that comes with limitations. No matter how long you've known someone even if it's 10+ years you should be able to stand up for your self and they should realize what you do for them. Second to last the one that really gets under my skin and makes my blood boil is two things lying and getting blown off, everyone lies and sometimes that lie can help but also hurt at the same time. You should know that you can talk to them no matter what and the lying game doesn't need to be played since you will always be accepting as long as it's the truth. Lastly getting blow off this one is the one that truly makes my blood boil, we all have at some point blown someone off but if it's not for a literal emergency or just something important came up there should be no point. I think it's incredibly rude to just blow someone off week after week with these lies, sucks even more if you know the why but they can't tell the truth. No matter what true friends should be your ride or die, your other half, you jump I jump. True friends will stab you in the front,now personally I'd rather be told head on what the problem is instead of it being danced around and lies are just spilling out like water. So guys if you have that true friend who is there till the end no matter what stay with them and fight like hell to keep it but not to the point of constant hurt. What I do is i will forgive but never will I forget..  Have an awesome weekend and I hope your thanksgiving was spent with friends and family! 

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Life... And All It Brings!!!

Hey guys so long time no write lol... I'm back to writing after being a little unmotivated, But not anymore I've been thinking about it for a while and finally feel like blogging again so I can stick to a schedule! So lets start off with its NOVEMBER!!!!!! HOLY CRAP!!! how did this happen Christmas is in a little over 4 weeks! 2017 is creeping up on us and fast. Second I wanna talk about my future for this blog... So I wanna keep writing and stick to a schedule to stay motivated and write two days a week and maybe thinking about adding another day to introduce a little topic i wanna start. Next I wanna redesign this blog so i can add my personal touch to it and so it looks really good for people reading! Lets take a tiny little turn into darkness lol lately I've been having little bouts of depression and not totally sure why but none the less its not fun. I've been feeling like I'm getting picked on for the littlest of things and after a while the build up drives me insane! for a while I've been contemplating getting away for a few days just to kind of relax and be by myself,I'm not one of those people who need to surrounded by those I'm close with. For me being by myself getting away and not having to really worry about anything at least for a little to think is what helps me out. So in either January or February I will be going to a hotel for 2-3 days just enough time to clear my head feel good again. So that's my little update so far, i hope you guys are excited for more posts and consistency on here and I will see you guys in a few days :D have an awesome day! 

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